THE IMPORTANCE OF LOVE
Child care always starts with your relationship with yourself. The moment you get pregnant, your baby will likely feel all your love – or the lack of it.
CHILDREN’S CELLS CARRY MEMORIES AS A FETUS
Back in 2016, I had a 27 year old, male client share with me that he doesn’t know why he feels so worthless. He comes from a loving family, with good upbringing. But he still feels like he’s not enough, and he doesn’t recall anyone in the family putting him down.
When I checked this concern with God*, God revealed to me that his mom didn’t want to keep him during pregnancy. Since the family didn’t let her abort him, she kept him. He was so surprised by this information because his mom never verbalized this to him.
Note: Any mention of “God” made in this website is in reference to the Highest Source Energy that is of unconditional love. Some may call this Being Universe, Creator, Mother, Father, Source, etc.
After a few moments, he shared his memory during his teens when he overheard an uncle talk about his mom’s possible abortion. He then couldn’t control his tears, and started to cry profusely. He recognized that there’s truth in what God said.
What am I trying to say? That man remembered not being wanted by his mom. His cells kept those memories. Though his mom may not have verbalized this to him, this damaged his own sense of self-worth. Unconsciously, he kept that feeling of worthlessness, and that his life didn’t matter that much.
PRE-PREGNANCY: DIFFICULTY IN CONCEIVING
Unfortunately, not all moms are blessed with children. Some experienced miscarriages, or couldn’t conceive. Difficulty in conception can be due to lack of nutrition in the mom’s body, too much stress, intake of drugs, and too much alcohol as well as financial worries.
Some moms couldn’t conceive because they aren’t over the loss of their firstborn, and these moms speak with me and God for closure.
Post shared to me by my client, referring to me as the medium
On top of the loss from miscarriage, sad to say, pain remnants are left in the mom’s womb if miscarriages happen but these can be removed with God’s love.
Whatever the reason may be to cause difficulty in pregnancy, God will help address these, only if still possible. God will always inform you of the truth if a pregnancy will take a toll on the mom’s health or can even cause death.
POST-PREGNANCY: THE BABY’S HEALTH & WELL-BEING
Once the baby is born, the parents’ actions, thoughts and care for the baby continue to largely affect the child’s well-being.
Such as the case of this mom, when she believed that her son was healed, the baby no longer needed to get brain surgery to treat his brain herniation. Please also know that this is the specific advice given to this mom, and powerful prayer may not be the effective suggestion for all cases.
[See story here: Saved From Dying]
As the babies get older, they can either be filled with so much love, or so much pain. Love is an accumulation of good, happy experiences with loved ones and with life. Pain is mostly caused by dysfunctional relationships, as well as exposure to, and experiences of family, business, career and financial hardships.
ADOLESCENCE
A healthy relationship will look like your child respects you, loves you, laughs with you, likes bonding with you, sees you as a safe space, and can have difficult conversations with you, among other good experiences.
If unsuccessful, children can stop talking to their parents and want to leave their parents as soon as they earn their own money. Some kids become suicidal, depressed or do casual sex, drugs and other vices. Others may grow up not wanting to study, or learn.
I had a case before that a mom contacted me because her daughter, who was a female high school student at the time, jumped off their house’s roof. She survived, with a broken leg and needed to use a wheelchair for a time. When I spoke with God about this, the root of her daughter’s pain is in the mom’s ancestral line. To share her family background, the mom was annulled, and also experienced another heartache when she broke up with her latest boyfriend. Sadly, dysfunctional relationships are common in her mom’s line. There were also plenty of abortions.
When the kids are older, self-harming behaviors are more difficult to correct. In the same way, good values that are instilled are easier to abide by.
YOUR BABY AS AN ADULT
Please know that when your child is 18 years old. That child is now an adult fully accountable for all his/her life decisions. But, before then, I hope you take care of God’s gift to you. Life will and always will be precious.
HOW TO BOOK A SESSION
When you’re ready to discuss how we can love your child more, or if you have any pregnancy issues or fears, please pick a schedule for your session with me and God here: