November 21, 2023 | By: Claire Louise
“I try so hard to make it work with my long-time boyfriend, but I feel like I’m slowly losing myself the longer I stay with him. With this new guy, I never felt so alive.”
Is there somebody you’re thinking of when you clicked this article?
Do you fantasize that one day, that person might show undying loyalty to you and you’ll be forever together in romantic bliss?
We know that most of you want to be with that person. But, should you pick that person over your current boyfriend?
How will my boyfriend take it if I decide to leave him? What if it doesn’t work out with the new guy?
Will I be alone forever?
Whenever we make an important life decision, we can get consumed by our fears and hesitations, especially when we are talking about who we’ll be spending the rest of our life with. Whether we like it or not, we are working with finite resources, like our youth, time, finances, and the memories and possibilities we could have with the consideration of our aging parents if you want them to be physically present on our wedding day.
In essence, we only have one life to live so we need to make it count.
Here in Miracles with Claire, we don’t even want to risk a lifetime of love, happiness and peace just for temporary sparks.
We also don’t want to spend the rest of our lives with a man who doesn’t know how to truly love us, as we also don’t know how to love him as he is.
To avoid all the unnecessary emotional heartache as well as wasted time, finances and other resources, one life hack our Miracles use is to seek the perspective of God* through me if their man is The One.
*Any mention of “God” is always in reference to the Highest Source Energy that is of unconditional love. Some may call this Being Universe, Creator, Mother, Father, Source, etc. While reading this article, you can replace the term God with a Name that resonates with you the most.
Read more about how God assesses romance and compatibility here:
Romance & Compatibility Reading With Claire
An example of how God does God’s assessment on romance and compatibility is expressed in this story of one of our Miracles, Jenna (not her real name).
Should I Choose My Current Boyfriend Or The New Guy?
When I first met Jenna, she was having complex thoughts and emotions about her love life.
She shared – I try so hard to make it work with my long-time boyfriend, but I feel like I’m slowly losing myself the longer I stay with him. With this new guy, I never felt so alive. I can feel like me again. He’s spontaneous and adventurous, unlike my boyfriend who can feel so boring. I don’t even go out as much since my boyfriend is a homebody!
While Jenna was vulnerably opening her heart to me and God, we started to discuss God’s perspective on the romance potential and compatibility of her relationship with her boyfriend and the new guy.
Whenever we seek God’s Truth like this, it is important to keep in mind that all God wants to do is to love you if you let God love you.
Part of letting God love you means you choose to be open to listening to God. In most cases, our Miracles feel super heard and loved by God. Whereas, in rare cases, what God wants and God’s advice for you sounds very new or hard to do, and even against your will.
It is also important to remember that God knows you, your boyfriend and your romantic prospect and God knows what is best for all of you.
God’s Perspective On Our Miracle’s Long-Time Boyfriend
God informed Jenna through me – Your current boyfriend will be loyal to you no matter what. He may seem boring but he will always keep trying to be the person you want him to be even though he won’t make any significant changes. This means that he can never be spontaneous and adventurous, even if you tell him many times to try. We both know that he will always try.
God’s Perspective On The New Guy
God said – As for this new guy, though he is exciting due to his adventurous nature, and he can always make you laugh and feel excited about life, he will eventually cheat on you. He will never ever commit to you.
God’s Recommendation For Our Miracle
Again, it is important to reinforce that the only thing God wants to do is to love you if you let God love you.
God knows who can make you laugh, who will be there with you, who can love you and treasure you your entire life, and who you’ll love also.
God also knows the likely trajectory of your life based on the choices you are making in the present, as your choices make your life.
God informed her – Neither guy is The One for you. We need to create someone new.
Shocked by what was told to her, our Miracle started to seek more insight about what God meant.
Our Miracle asked – Does this mean no one is destined for me? Why do I need to create a new partner? I want to be with The New Guy, though. I should also probably break up with my boyfriend.
God answered her calmly – There are times when souls agree to reincarnate together so their relationship is predestined. Then, there are souls like yours that prefer the creation path, which is to choose the person you want to be with and the kind of relationship you want to be in.
God added – I would let you experience being with The New Guy, but it’s best to guard your heart. You can enjoy this New Guy as he is giving you good feelings and experiences you’ve never felt before. However, know that this man will not commit to you nor be loyal to you in the long run. It is not advised that you be in a serious relationship with him.
Still feeling so shocked from what she heard, Jenna continued to make sense of what was revealed to her. God, through me, continued to lovingly address all her concerns until her mind became more accepting of what was revealed to her. When she was finally ready, we created a profile of her partner that is God-approved.
Profile Creation Of Our Miracle’s Life Partner
We then assessed the qualities that were truly important to her when it comes to a romantic partner. We got into a conversation on what being with a highly compatible man looks and feels like. The scenario that is given to her is that she is with a man who loves and chooses her and she also loves and chooses this man.
Does Jenna want to get married?
How does she want to be treated and loved?
What kind of man can she truly love?
Though this visualization exercise felt so foreign to her, we discovered that getting married, and a man’s loyalty, height, attractiveness and adventurous nature were important to her, among other things.
Fast forward to less than a year later, she is now with a new man who loves her and she loves back.
Would you also like to co-create a God-approved match for you?
Miracles, if you choose to do this Profile Creation exercise with me and God, we prioritize emotional, mental, physical and spiritual compatibility as well as having similar future goals. We also avoid the following –
- Having less than bare minimum requests.
God shares – Majority of My Children do not believe that they can have a decent man. Some will often go for the one who can pay the bill but not treat them right. Some would even believe that it is normal for men to cheat. This doesn’t mean, however, that polygamy is a bad thing if polygamy is accepted by both parties in the relationship. What would be hurtful in this situation is if the woman truly wanted a loyal man but settled for a polygamous man.
- Wanting to use the man to save you. Might we remind you that your man is your life partner. Though it is nice to manifest a handsome, extremely rich man who is capable of giving you overflowing security, safety and all of your emotional, physical, spiritual and mental connection needs, me and God do not want you to use him. We want you to be with a man whom you genuinely love for who he is, and he loves you for who you are.
- Overly unrealistic standards. Avoid requesting for a man who is too perfect or so much better than you, as you may not have a man at all.
God shares – The pain of some of My Children have is that they want the textbook, movie-like or K-pop drama boyfriend with the irresistible charm, success, and winning personality, coupled with a whirlwind romance. Though having a man and romance like that is possible, it is also good to spend time thinking if you can match, love and connect with a man like this.
Another pain is when My Children decide on conflicting qualities. An example is wanting a man to be a successful, top notch, self-made businessman AND you want him to spend a lot of quality time with you. A business profile like that will most likely want to go on business trips, stay in tune with the latest trends and do other efforts to ensure that his businesses stay afloat. He’d be a busy man and will not likely spend a lot of quality time with you, especially if you’re not his constant business partner.
Another example is wanting the most handsome man in the world, like the most popular K-pop artist or celebrity, to choose you as his girlfriend and wife AND you don’t even speak his language. You won’t even be able to connect.
- Unsuitable partner. When we are young, not so mindful and not so self-actualized, we can latch onto qualities that seem important, ideal and/or beautiful but aren’t.
You may ASSUME that you want a calm man who came from an old rich family, but you may benefit better from an honest, go-getter, self-made man. Maybe, you want a cook, but it is best if you are the cook in the relationship.
There are many facets God considers when selecting qualities. After we decide on your partner’s profile together, God orchestrates your union to happen and you will have plenty of blissful moments with your partner.
This is one way of how Heaven on Earth will become more possible for you and your partner. And, because your union exists, it’s also more possible to influence humanity to make better decisions when it comes to love. Then, there will be more happy couples all over the world.
Read more about what God means by Heaven on Earth here: What is Heaven on Earth?
As for those who wish to do this exercise on their own, this exercise requires a lot of self-actualization to diagnose what your real needs are, as your preferences can be tainted by trauma, societal preferences, lack, and the like. If you do create a Top 5 must haves list, you can come to me and God so we can assess it, and help you journey closer to God’s best match for you.
This story is told through me and God’s lens. Our Miracle chose to keep her identity confidential. We hope this real life miracle story empowers you to make better, more informed decisions when it comes to love.
Dear Miracle, do you want to talk about your love life?
God’s advice for Jenna may not be the one that you need to hear, as me and God deal with problems on a case to case basis. Once you’re ready to unlock your own miracles, you may book here: